Letter from Mom & Dad....

To our Dear Child....

On the day when you see us old, weak & weary, have patience & do try to understand us...

If we get dirty when eating and if we cannot dress on our own, please bear with us, and remember the times we spent feeding you and dressing you up...

If, when we speak to you, we repeat the same things over and over again, do not interrupt us, please listen to us... Because, When you were small, we had to read to you the same story thousand & one times until you went to sleep...

When we do not want to have shower, neither shame us nor scold us... Remember when we had to chase you with your thousands excuses to get you to the shower...

When at some moments, we loose the memory or the thread of our conversation, Let us have the necessary time to remember... As the most important thing is not our conversation, but simply to be with you and to have you listening to us...

Lend us your helping hand, the same way we did when you tried your first faltering steps...

And when someday, we say to you that we dont want to live anymore, do not get angry, try to appreciate that our age is not just lived, but survived...

Someday you will realised that despite our mistakes, we always wanted the best for you...

You must not feel sad, angry, nor ashamed for having us near you... Instead, try to understand us & help us like we did when you were young...

Help us to walk.... Help us to live the rest of our life with love & dignity...

We will pay you with a smile and by the immense love that we have always had for you in our hearts...

We Love You, Child...

From- Mom n Dad, With Love.....

Appreciate them while they are still alive... Make them happy because we cant repay what they had done for us... I Love you, Mom n Dad... :)

How People Changed...

Assalamualaikum & Greetings to All :)

Today on 29th April 2011, I finally removed my braces after wearing it for about 1 year & 4 months :) Just observed how much I've changed...


Along with this, I would also like to share the evolution of myself from a small cute baby to a mature lady (as if.. :P).

People do changed...always towards the better side :)




I would like to apologized as the pictures are not so clear.. Im not so good with all these so called technology :)
People always said to me, "Mas,u look different" & I always try to change myself to be a better person,day by day... " A Succesful Person Never Do ExtraOrdinary Things..They Do Ordinary Things In An ExtraOrdinary Way" Assalamualaikum :)

P/S: For a better view of the pictures,I guess you can just click on the pictures,and the clear one will show up :)

Read through me....

Assalamualaikum & Greetings to all... :)


Alhamdulillah,thank u Allah..For giving me another to share things with everyone :)


Read through me.... Some people are naturally born with the talent,where he or she can read through a person just by looking at their facial expressions... They are called 'naturals'... Nevertheless, there are people who also have the ability to read through others by acquiring the knowledge :) They are called 'experts'...



A facial expression results from one or more motions or positions of the muscles of the face. These movements convey the emotional state of the individual to observers. Facial expressions are a form of nonverbal communication. They are a primary means of conveying social information among humans, but also occur in most other mammals and some other animal species.



Humans can adopt a facial expression to read as a voluntary action. However, because expressions are closely tied to emotion, they are more often involuntary. It can be nearly impossible to avoid expressions for certain emotions, even when it would be strongly desirable to do so, a person who is trying to avoid insult to an individual, he or she finds highly unattractive might nevertheless show a brief expression of disgust before being able to reassume a neutral expression. Microexpressions are one example of this phenomenon. The close link between emotion and expression can also work in the other direction; it has been observed that voluntarily assuming an expression can actually cause the associated emotion.



Some expressions can be accurately interpreted even between members of different species- anger and extreme contentment being the primary examples. Others, however, are difficult to interpret even in familiar individuals. For instance, disgust and fear can be tough to tell apart. Because faces have only a limited range of movement, expressions rely upon fairly minuscule differences in the proportion and relative position of facial features, and reading them requires considerable sensitivity to same. Some faces are often falsely read as expressing some emotion, even when they are neutral, because their proportions naturally resemble those another face would temporarily assume when emoting.


As for me, I've learned, though not an expert, on how to read people expressions... It is somehow important for me as a doctor, to know whether a patient is lying while telling the history of his or her illness... There are few conditions or circumstances where you cant apply this knowledge on people,especially when they are using BOTOX, as Botox paralyses all your facial muscles. Stroke also can somehow affect the face reading. Kindly watch this video to learn more about facial expressions http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=TrgNKGjSyxA


The most important take home message is, facial expressions is an universal phenomena, no matter who you are, right from the billionaire to the beggar,because we humans have the same facial muscles :)

Personality & Blood Group...

Assalamualaikum & Greetings to all :)

Whenever we read the newspaper or magazine,majority of us will turn to the page where they give the horoscopes view of each zodiac. On the other hand,there a lots of studies that co-relates the month of birth or the days when we were born with the personality. Most of the points are true and it is so true that people start believing in it,even when searching for love :)

But not many people realised about the relationship between the blood group and personality. Studies has been done since they noticed that certain diseases are much more common in that particular blood group. For an example, stomach cancer is more common in people who has 'A' type of blood group. Therefore,they started to learn and do lots of researches on the behaviour of an individual according to their blood group.

In general, there are 4 major blood groups,namely :-

• Blood group 'A'


• Blood group 'B'


• Blood group 'AB'


• Blood group 'O'

Each blood group can be either (+ve) or (-ve), depending upon the presence of Rhesus factor. Majority of us have the positive Rhesus factor. Now,lets see what are the peculiar behavior of each and every blood group :)

• TYPE 'O' (HOT)

Population - 38% of the world is O +ve and 6% O -ve.

Confident and Strong-Willed, Proud, Dedicated, Sociable, Energetic, Extroverted, Frank, Realist, Showy, Flighty, Generalist, Positive, Independent, Risk-Takers, Dislike taking orders, Insecure, Stubborn & Self-Centered.

Make friends easily and go with flow and grasp opportunity. Quick to start a project or chase an idea. Are good at organizing activities. May have short attention span, and expresses strong emotions. May quickly take opposite views that are deep but not always durable. Classic entrepreneurs and movers and shakers.

Express their emotions but can be swayed by other blood types. Have an intrinsic elegance. Sociable and showy. May be good at adapting to circumstances. Words come easily to them. Not self conscious and will frankly reveal inner feelings. Ambitious, but may have issues with detail. Like to be touch and be touched by others.

• TYPE 'A' (COOL)

Population - Roughly 34% of the world is A +ve and 6% A -ve.

Traits Obedient, Careful, Sympathetic, Self-Sacrificing, Polite, Honest, Loyal, Emotional, Introverted & Nervous.

Are reserved calm and even tempered. Sensitive to public opinion. May be Introverted, shy and nervous or ill at ease with others. May be Pessimistic. Value relationships and are loyal.

Hesitant to change. Nature lovers and dislike crowds - need a private place or secret hideaway. Can be indecisive. Good at team work and obey rules. Dislike to touch or be touched by others.

• TYPE 'B' (ACTIVE)

Population - Roughly 9% of the world is B +ve and 2% B -ve.

Traits Cheerful, Optimistic, Active, Sensitive, Kind, Forgetful, unorganized, Noisy, Egocentric Energetic and have the drive to reach towards goals. May be workaholics. Not the best team players and are individualistic.

Do things at one's own pace. Strong personality adventurous. Likes to get one's own way. Are Sociable and enjoy entertaining. Like to touch or be touched by others.

• TYPE 'AB' (CARE FREE)

Population - Roughly 4% of the world is AB +ve and 1% AB -ve.

Traits Social, Easy-going, Sympathetic, Diplomatic, Outgoing, Laid-back, Creative, Unpredictable, Artistic, Flexible, Moody and Brooding.

Blend of opposites. Shy with some and bold with some. Introvert and Extrovert. Unpredictable and may seem to have calm exterior. Strong creative strain. Good at spotting problems and skirting them. Like city environment. Get bored easily. Everything they do is compelling.

Never take things for granted. Appear mysterious. Contribute harmoniously to society. Dislike to touch or be touched by others.

So,where do you belong? :) This is somehow useful in order to prevent diseases which are life-style related like myocardial infacrtion, stomach cancer, stroke and hypertension. Take the positive attitude and leave the negative bahaviour in order to stay healthy :) Smile always :)